My husband and I have been married for five years. We have two children, respectable jobs, and are deeply in love. Last month, we managed to offload the brood for a dirty weekend away interstate. After a boozy dinner, my husband suggested we go to a strip club..
You notice how close or far your going-out clothes are to stripper outfits. You go in a big group of girls and pregame beforehand and talk about how many things you are about to share with Rihanna. We are going to have the best time at the strip club! We are basically going to be blood sisters with Rihanna.
What should I do? Strip clubs tend to be a gray area for many couples. Some husbands and wives go to clubs together and view it as a way to spice up their sex life. And still others are dead set against it. Each couple needs to make a decision together about what is appropriate for them.
I love people. Their plan was to visit these clubs once a month to deliver a meal and gift baskets. I was totally unaware of what I was walking into. We arrived and the bouncer ushered us back into the dressing room where we introduced ourselves and began distributing the gifts and food. I was raised to believe that no good comes from places like that.